Choosing elegance is a lovely approach to life and one that spreads grace and love to all. It starts with calm confidence, the only goal to add beauty and peace to every encounter. Easy and open minded, elegance is thoughtful and gentle without false modesty. Soft colors and fabrics, floral patterns or knits will further the goal of elegance, but really any fashion element can work because elegance is a state of mind.
If you dress elegantly, you will be treated differently and start a ripple effect. If black leather is your game, try nude shoes and discreet hair to complement with gentle contradiction. You won't loose yourself by changing the accessories and accents, you're simply modernizing and softening...refining your statement. There is a romantic airiness happening now that is worth experimenting with. We all want more love and grace in our lives, why not jump start the flow by giving it freely to all who lay eyes on your unique beauty.